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Having the big "O" is hard enough with a partner and
having it on your own may take time. Many
variables including how we were raised can
interfere with climatic and orgasmic
achievements. What are we are taught about
sexual pleasuring can produce a stigma which will
affect our abilities to gratify ourselves, although we
have the ability to overcome this hurdle. With
time and an open mind you can give yourself a very
gratifying and explosive orgasm. Below I have
listed some solutions to overcoming barriers so that
you can obtain self sexual gratification.
You need to mentally
accept that people are sexual creatures, we were
designed to give, obtain and feel pleasure.
Pleasure that doesn't harm others and feels good, is
good. Your body is your own. There is
nothing dirty about touching your pleasure
Once your mind is willing
to accept self pleasuring you need to be comfortable
with your own touch. It is your hand, you have
full control of it. You can do what you please
and what feels good. Your first touch can begin
anywhere you please, whether it be your neck, your
arm, your leg or where ever. Touch yourself
softly, gently and concentrate on how it feels.
Move very slowly over your body and just enjoy the
touch. Close your eyes and feel the warm, soft
touch on your skin. Only go as far as you are
comfortable with. Each and every time you
perform this exercise go a little further with your
touch. When you are finally comfortable
introduce a toy. Vibrating
toys will drive you wild.
Arousal and lubrication
is vital keys to sexual enjoyment whether with a
partner, a toy or masterbation. Natural
lubricant from your own body or lubricant in a bottle,
either way, it's what makes it pleasurable.
Another reason to use lubricants is to avoid
irritation. Lack of lubricant or not enough
lubricant will cause much discomfort therefore use a
suitable amount of lubricant and don't be afraid to
add more if needed.
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vitamin beads that soothes and cools sensitive skin.
for woman -> Here is a special
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